What doesn't stop?

Who is doesn't stop moving all day, continually puts his hands on something that doesn't belong to him and is not ashamed of that behavior, and is brown? The UPS delivery person!  This young man came to our porch last week with our first shipment of hard cover books, and when he took a look at them, he started to think of his own "story" and work... and held out his hands. Of course it was the perfect photo op!  It was a joy to get to know him beyond his dropping off the packages.  We talked about the work, and dirt which is what makes him somewhat of a hero!  We also talked about some of the other "good stuff" like holding his girlfriend's hand or petting the dog.

See you next time around!

How Fun to Anticipate a Full Day of Friends and Fun!

Getting ready for a season of book events.  It is really fun to share our book and how it came to be, but really the most fun to share the stories of the people in REAL.   That is what it is all about.  Tomorrow we are thankful that some of our REAL people are joining us at the Central Coast Author and Book Festival at Mission Plaza in San Luis Obispo!   We will have Ken and Mary from our Hope chapter and Lois from Inspiration.... and our cover girl!  She is bringing one of her wooden, mechanical toy creations to give away with our new hard cover book or sell to benefit the Shell Beach Library! Here we share photos of Betty ( Balance) and Kallie (Wisdom and Acceptance)  It will be a beautiful day in SLO tomorrow! Come on out! 

Steppin' up and out- Nashville to Cali

Our community expected good things on Tuesday evening, but this was beyond!   Thomas Maupin and Daniel Rothwell surpassed any hopes we had of our bluegrass and "down home" friends and family event!
The chapel was packed, seats were added in the foyer and on the front porch... and side door... people were even in the street watching and listening to the joyful foot stomping, toe tapping music that filled the air. The love that grandpa and Daniel share for not only eachother but for music and for goodwill was contagious.  The humility they displayed was exemplary! So much talent, so much achievement, so much generosity, yet they just wanted to share the happiness and simplicity of music and being together. We wish you the very very best , both of you ... and to your band.  Happy travels till you get back to Tennessee.  Hope you come again!

Tuesday Night of Bluegrass and Buck Dance

As we anticipate the fall season at the chapel, it is amazing to experience the wealth of talent, energy and hope that individuals can inspire when they reach out to communities.  Tomorrow night Thomas Maupin, his grandson,Daniel Rothwell, and their bluegrass band arrive from Tennessee to share their music and film with Shell Beach.  Buck Dancing is something we don't see everyday here at the beaches of the central coast.  They will add to the new life of the chapel, once again... something new! Their story is the subject of their film: Let Your Feet Do the Talkin' and it is worth checking out!    Safe Travels Mr Maupin and your crew!

Big Waves, Big Projects, Good Hearts

REAL ISN'T...  Even though this video clip has been a part of our site for months, it has a power that still moves me incredibly.  Somehow, the magic of telling a story, combining the arts of music, images, text and graphic design in a technical medium like this really does touch our souls.  Our eyes, ears, and hearts are affected. We seem to find a sense of connection, to each other and to something that we experience in the seconds or minutes  it takes to watch a clip. I am so grateful for this wonderful work and hope you enjoy it if you have not seen it yet.  David, our videographer, created this for REAL.  Featured in the Dreams chapter, he is currently working on a new surf film with his crew and several of surfing's pros.  Recently, the guys filmed in Nicaragua, then traveled the east coast from Florida to New York, post Irene.  They stopped in North Carolina to help clean up debris around the homes of friends who had suffered damage there.  They are wrapping up in New York at the Quiksilver Pro 2011.  It is refreshing to know there are busy and successful people out there who have willingness to help others, like producing our smaller video, and even more, helping serve in the aftermath of a hurricane.  Thank you, David, and we look forward to your new film!

WHO SAYS FOLLOW YOUR HEART? THIS MAN DOES!

 For the last several days I have been fascinated by this man, Curtis.  I met him on our early morning walk with Candy and Teri and knew about his project, but had not had minute to go to greet him and donate my items until today.                    

Curtis is in Shell Beach gathering building materials, clothing,  toiletries and other items needed in Louisiana.   This is one of many, many trips he has done in the last 4 years.    His mission is  monumental, and he must be very much loved in the towns where he is able to unload his collection to those who will find their burden lighter, because of this man.  He is doing a great work, and a truly amazing thing about Curtis is his infectious manner and optimism.  He has such faith and determination. He radiates hope, acceptance and love which seem to attract people from all over and excite them about having such a generous and giving spirit.  People are drawn to him and his project.  Like "magic", in the parking lot, they are gathering, giving, meeting each other in a spirit of community and acceptance.  It is refreshing to see this effort in action.  There is no doubt that each person counts, we all make a difference.. it is about how we want to do that.  In looking at Curtis hands,  Very very REAL!  they reveal the story of a man who is working hard, giving much and lived deeply... also the story of a man who is devoted, brave and happy following his heart.     In fact the name of his foundation is: Follow Your Heart Action Network http://followyourheartactionnetwork.com/index.htm 

You can donate to this foundation on the website! See your giving at work! 

Bless you, Curtis, as you are a blessing to many including the hearts of those here in Shell Beach! 

You Want to Hold MY Hand? "Paws"ing with Hurley

Ever have one of those days where the dam finally breaks, and all of the issues and feelings and worries that have been on hold, trying to stay within a tolerable and controlled level, cannot be contained anymore?  This was one of those mornings... and I had no choice but to let it all come gushing out as ungraceful, messy, teary, ugly as it was ... and My husband, who had only been home for hours during the last several weeks, was the target of it all.
Once I started, I could not stop, and it felt good most of the time. I was thankful that he just listened and waited to see what response might be appropriate.  "Never seen you like that before," he said after I was mostly done with my flood of emotion.  The discussion led to the decision to go on a hike with our adopted dog, Hurley.  We were really enjoying the opportunity to make up for "lost time", to enjoy no interruptions,  talking while on the trail.

This "Rest of the Story" is why I am even sharing this here in the blog...  Hurley usually requires two doggie-doo bags at any outing, however I only brought one this time.  Like clockwork, he did his business shortly after the start of the trail. I put my hand in the bag to pick up his pile and then remembered that if he did another, I would not be able to pick that one up too, with a full bag.  I, then, took the contents of the bag by "inside out" tossing the material off into the bushes.  Next I neatly folded the bag up for the subsequent crouch, which appeared to be imminent after about another 1/8 mile.  By this time, my husband and I were chattering non-stop, especially me, and completely engaged in the conversation, when I noticed Hurley get into position.  Automatically, I got the bag out and put my hand inside.... YEEEEEWW! I realized what I had done and pulled it out immediately to find my hand covered in slimey doggie doo.... my next thought and exclamation was about how not only might I have scared my husband about my strong and emotional outpouring this morning, but now he will NEVER hold my hand!!!  Instead he proved to be the man I know he is and he, with the heartiest laugh ever, said, "I will gladly hold your hand!" as he took my brown slippery hand into his.  We have had the best, gut wrenching laughs all day, especially Hurley!  Hope it makes raises a smile or two for others!

Going to the Chapel a "Piece of Peace"

Hot Pink Crystals were the project of the morning, as Suzanne came over to help paint the hundreds of dots and drops, catching drips along the way.  The combination of hot pink, black and metallic gold keeps the work fun, and doing it with a friend makes it go fast and even more fun.
Promptly at 11:20, we stowed our tools and supplies and went separate ways: Suz,  to  her appointment and me, to our chapel by the sea, La Perla del Mar.
We have been hosting a delightful stained glass window exhibit for almost three weeks.  Jim Cain of Los Osos had a reception and show of his inspired art work.  He has come during the lunch hour gallery time, however this week, because of a family crisis, I took his place.  I am thankful when I can find a block of time to sit in that precious space.  It is so intimate, quiet and spirit filled.  The walls, the floor, the rafters hold a wealth of stories of people who have filled it over the last seven decades. This is a place that encourages stillness, calm and peace, especially good for someone like me who has a hard time sitting down during a day.

As I waited for gallery visitors, I worked on prayer quilts for Saint John's Lutheran Church, stitching in yarn ties.  The rhythm of stitching was pleasantly interrupted as and occasional visitor walked into the chapel with wide eyed appreciation of the church and the beauty of the windows.  Jims' colored glass panes invited rich colors of light onto the wood floor and through the room, which captivated their audience.
I felt so much gratitude for the place and time of sitting today in our little chapel, during the final days of Jim's stained glass exhibit... That little chapel remains standing just for that:   "Piece of Peace"  waiting with a welcome.

Bling Blog Madonna! Well La De Da!!!

Just a fun note as the Remnants of the Past  chandelier panels progress.  They are coming to life!  Once the black silhouettes are painted onto the metallic gold fence panels, we will add hundreds of raspberry pink crystals dripping all over for the Madonna Inn effect! Thank you Judy for inviting us to do a signing at this popular events! We are thrilled to bring our second edition HARD cover!

Books Blogs and Baby!

It is a big week for my dear friend and photographer, Terilee, and her husband Ryan.  Their first baby is due any day, and I know they are so ready.  I am so excited for this young and very grounded couple who have many, many friends, have traveled extensively, contributed to their church and community and are each other's best friend.  I am so thrilled that Terilee has been able to do the photo shoots for REAL, as well as many for our La Perla del Mar Chapel and family.  Her talent is so much a part of her. However, I know that as the new little one captivates her and Ryan's complete love, when Terilee decides to pick up her camera, it will be as if she never put it down!  Wishing this young family the very best always!  Blessed birth and life with baby!  Check out Terilee and Ryan's pre baby photos at http://www.terileedawn.com/blog/?p=1914

A Picture is Worth A Thousand Words

Nothing unusual about today. . . a hundred things going at one time.  

Honestly, as Jackie and I merrily worked on the giant musical notes for the hospital gala, we paused to remind ourselves of a favorite quote:  "If you want to get a job done, ask a busy woman."

Looking around this yard, I don't think there is much I need to add to that.   Yup, this is part of my backyard.  Grand Central Station! 

Our best to French Hospital and their efforts and mission!  Hope the gala is a huge success! 

One Woman's Kindness Hits It Out of the Ballpark!

Amazing efforts by an amazing lady..... The founder of a relatively new project, Lisa Rosemarie Ray has been fearlessly and tirelessly embracing the tremendous support and growth of her hugely successful nonprofit organization, Lisa Ray's Donation Group.  Only a few years in development, she started out as a mom who saw the need of other children and started collecting items needed for others in her own community.  Over the years, the needs have continued and her request for donations blossomed.  She receives mountains of bags and boxes in her driveway everyday.  Over time she has recruited dozens of volunteers to help with the sorting, sizing, packing and giving of all of the things she receives.  I have had the honor of working with her and hope to do more.  The experience of the energy and focus of this effort is very powerful.  It is very humbling to realize how great the needs are right in our own back yard.  It is very humbling to see people step up to the call for donations of items and of time.  Additionally, it takes a very motivated, approachable, sincere individual ( or an army!) to pull of it together and on time, especially during holidays and special school dates. As our school district just began for the new school year, Lisa and her organization gathered, packed and delivered clothing, school items and more to over 170 children this week.  Watching the activity posted on Facebook it looks like she never stops.... and moreover, Lisa is always, ALWAYS   grateful and humble.  A remarkable woman with a remarkable vision.   Congratulations  to you Lisa on this great success.  The families your serve are lucky to have you and so are the families that you inspire to give and to volunteer.

Sacred Ground and Chocolate

How often does one get to write about God and chocolate in one brief statement?

God knows what He is doing.

I love the Old Mission Santa Barbara.  As a child it was so regal, almost glamorous compared to its sister in our town of Lompoc, the Mission La Purisima.  As I learned to appreciate the history and "grand design" of the missions, I realized they possess a deeper common thread of beauty, and each has its own character that defines it and its purpose.  None is better than another, in fact, the Mission Santa Barbara has allowed me to love La Purisima, and the other missions even more... it has revealed the uniqueness of each.

I cannot imagine a more amazing place for REAL to have its first public display for sale than the Santa Barbara Missions Retreat Center and Gift shop.  This has been an honor.  Thank you to Sister Susan and the gift shop for their affirmation and support!

Tonight we realize our second  invitation to display REAL for sale is at another heavenly and sacred place.  Eve at Sweet Earth Chocolates in San Luis Obispo set the books  on display to our delight!  Sweet Earth has mission projects of their own,  their chocolate is out of this world!  Fair Trade and organic and perfection!  Check them out at:

www.sweetearthchocolates.com       Teryl and I had a marbled chocolate tulip with white and dark chocolate, raspberries and sauce!

Beyond "The Bard or the Yard"

Saturday in the village ended with a most extraordinary experience.  I was excited to attend a performance of John Steinbeck's "Of Mice and Men" at an innovative new venue: The SPOT.  I have loved the Studio Theater and Dance (Studio of Performing Arts) building there since our daughters learned to sing and dance in Annie, Grease, and more.  For years I helped with set design, building and painting. In fact the front door of the SPOT with all of its color, is one of my designs.  Terilee was one of the people who helped to paint it.

Times are changing and this vintage building, (once a dairy and then hardware store) is now redesigned to serve the classes of students and performances more effecively.  Under the direction of Jake McGuire and Shannon Lowrie,  The dance studio is in the back and stage (the SPOT) up front.  Jake has kept the old warehouse character and added high tech sound, lighting, comfy old school theater seating for 50 and finished off the space with a giant, crumbling medieval castle wall in the back.  They have offered a variety of entertainment with movies, dance shows, concerts and theater.

This particular weekend's show was presented by PoeticJusticeProject. I had seen a performance that was produced through the efforts of PJP Director/founder Debbie Tobola  and director Bruce Wall of LSW Prison Project called "Rounding Shakespeare" at CMC here in our area.  Debbie's proposal to offer inmates a choice between "the Bard or the Yard".  I was excited to see this next stage of her vision.

 

The production (under direction of Jake McGuire) was profound in its straight forward performances, simple sets.  It was genuinely a team effort and, of course, it was Steinbeck.   There were many questions after the performance as they provided a Q and A time.  It was moving to see how grateful these actors were to have this opportunity to be involved. It was not about being a star, not about showing off talent, or just entertaining.  They are truly giving back to community and to society, giving back  and being equal parts of an effort that would not have been the same without them.  They talked about the difficulties and challenges of transitioning from  incarceration to society.  They shared how art transcends differences between people, and the courage, the encouragement and confidence they gained from their involvement in the Poetic Justice Project.  I commend Debbie, Jake, the sponsors of these efforts and of course the cast and crew who are making a change that benefits themselves, their families, and for this weekend, our community.  We are enriched by this experience. Thank you! 

Ready Set GOLD!

Thanks to Judy Watkins and Remnants of the Past Fall 2011, I am back at creating sets!  Her idea was to create 9 large panels (8'x4') in glittering gold metallic, double sided that will hang from the ceiling of the Madonna Inn Expo Center http://www.madonnainn.com/expo.php during the weekend long event.  A total of 18 chandeliers, each covered with hundreds of hot pink  crystals will be painted, one on each side of the 9 panels.  Really a fun idea. Laura came out to paint today and we were delighted to finish the priming and finally get to test the "pharoah gold" color! The photo does not reflect the glimmer, but it is going to be Fabulous!  Good to get our hands dirty, a little bit of sun, and take our tea breaks after each coat of paint.  I am honored to be contributing to Judy's mission.  She and "Remnants" benefit the SLO Women's Shelter from the success of the show, and it is more and more successful every year! Congratulations Judy!  And best wishes to all who participate in this fall's event!